Get it the virtue.

Her husband was the one who offered to be a state home dad, but he goes, here's the

thing.

If I'm going to do this, you're going to have to pay me a salary.

And she's like, well, that's different.

She came to us.

We discussed.

And Cassie, if I remember correctly, you were a, you were team dad, right?

Yeah, I said you should pay dad a salary, absolutely, because at home work and that kind

of labor, we say it for women.

That's time consuming people's like their time cost money.

You would hire cleaning service to come in.

You would hire nannies or people to watch your kids.

A lot of a state home moms and dads would have stepped away from a career.

So that costs them opportunities and sort of salary down the line because they're sacrificing

that experience.

So being a state home parent seems like it's free, but really when you look at missed opportunities

and who you would have hired to do the jobs that they're doing, that's a lot of money

that goes into it.

My husband is a stay at home dad and this has been having our first child and this first

year has been an eye opening experience to say the least.

No, he does not get a salary.

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