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UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

UFYB 303: Conscious Uncoupling: A Conversation with Ali Ryan

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

Kara Loewentheil

Education, Society & Culture, Philosophy, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.65.6K Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2023

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Nearly all of us will experience a breakup at some point in our lives (if we haven’t already). No matter how or why the relationship ends, it’s what we choose to do once that relationship is over, that really matters. This week on the podcast, fellow coach Ali Ryan is joining me to talk about using thought work to navigate breakups, divorce, and separation. We’ll discuss how breakups can be a tool for transformation, why the relationship with yourself may be the most important when you’re going through a breakup, and what you gain from being willing to have a happy ending, even though the relationship is over.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/303

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0:00.0

Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain, the only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism

0:13.8

and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life.

0:18.6

And now here's your host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach,

0:24.7

Carla Lowenthal.

0:25.7

Hello, my chickens.

0:29.5

I need to tell you about my day yesterday because my day yesterday was the kind of day that

0:36.4

before coaching and knowing how to coach myself and having learned how to change my thoughts

0:41.5

and calm my nervous system down, I would have lost my shit approximately 27 times.

0:47.5

I know we have all had those days where everything is on your last nerve.

0:52.8

Everything is really upsetting.

0:54.6

Your brain starts telling you that you just can't live this way.

0:57.3

You can't deal with these things.

0:58.6

You can't handle this.

1:00.4

Nothing's ever going to change.

1:01.4

You're always going to feel horrible.

1:02.4

Nothing's going to work out.

1:03.8

I mean, my brain does this.

1:05.2

I know some of you feel me.

1:07.8

And I still had a little bit of our day yesterday, but I was at the same time so amazed

1:14.6

and grateful that I had found coaching because I just remember what those days were like

1:18.7

before coaching and how much of a wreck I would have been.

1:23.6

And instead yesterday, rather than being on like a roller coaster, I was just on like

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