UFYB 296: Navigating Psychological Avoidance: A Conversation With Dr. Luana Marques
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
Kara Loewentheil
4.6 • 5.6K Ratings
🗓️ 29 June 2023
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
Many of us feel stuck when we experience the discomfort of anxiety. But ironically, it’s not the anxiety itself that keeps us stuck, it’s what we do when we’re anxious that keeps us in the cycle of anxiety and inaction — aka psychological avoidance. This week on the podcast we’re digging deep into the brain with Dr. Luana Marques, professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and author of Bold Move. We’ll discuss the three skills you can use to move through psychological avoidance, why aligning with our values can be difficult for women because of the way we were socialized, and how to know if you’re thinking clearly or if your brain has been hijacked by your amygdala.
Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/296
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism |
| 0:13.8 | and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life. And now here's your |
| 0:19.3 | host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach, Carla Lohanthile. |
| 0:28.1 | Hello, my chickens. I am so excited about this conversation. I love talking to people |
| 0:35.8 | who have really deep academic expertise in the brain and how it works because all of |
| 0:41.4 | you know, one of my kind of soap boxes is that self-help and self-development work gets |
| 0:45.8 | kind of minimized because it's like women doing it. And so when we can talk about how |
| 0:50.0 | it overlaps really with the science, I think that's always such a powerful kind of conversation. |
| 0:56.2 | So our guest today is Dr. Lohanthile and she is a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical |
| 1:01.2 | School among many other accomplishments that she can tell you about. And she's the author |
| 1:05.5 | of Bold Booth, which we're going to talk quite a bit about, which is a new book. So you |
| 1:09.5 | want to tell us a little bit about yourself? Sure, thanks for having me for the light |
| 1:13.9 | foot to be here. So I am a professor at Harvard Medical School, but I'd say my journey is |
| 1:20.1 | an unconventional one. I grew up in Brazil with lots of adversity. Climbed my way out of |
| 1:25.2 | trauma and poverty to get to Harvard. And my passion really is, is how to take science |
| 1:32.2 | out of the ivory tower into the inner city. So the last 15 years, all of my research and |
| 1:37.2 | my work has been training paraprofessionals on the skills that I describe on Bold Move. |
| 1:43.2 | And this idea and to your point, Karada, you said already, this idea that like we can |
| 1:48.1 | revive our brain, that we can train our brain if we really understand neuroscience and |
| 1:53.4 | use skills, we can exercise our brains to leave our best life. And that's what I'm really |
| 1:58.8 | passionate about. I love it. So I totally want to get into the book and your framework, |
| 2:02.8 | but just already I have like questions based on what you said that I want to talk about |
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