UFYB 293: Boundaries, Breakups, and Relationships: A Q+A Episode
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
Kara Loewentheil
4.6 • 5.6K Ratings
🗓️ 8 June 2023
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Tune in to this episode as I answer some questions about boundaries, breakups, and relationships. You’ll find out how you might be thinking about boundaries the wrong way, why enjoying your own company has nothing to do with wanting to be in a relationship, and why you can’t rush through the emotional process after a breakup.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism |
| 0:13.8 | and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life. And now here's your |
| 0:19.3 | host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach, Carla Lohanthile. |
| 0:27.3 | Hello, my chickens. We are doing one of my favorite kinds of episodes today, which is a Q&A |
| 0:33.9 | episode. So I asked all of y'all to submit questions on social media on Instagram, specifically. If |
| 0:41.6 | you don't follow me on Instagram, there's a good reason to follow me on Instagram because when I'm |
| 0:45.7 | going to do a Q&A episode, that's where I ask for questions. My profile is just my name at |
| 0:50.7 | Carla Lohanthile. You can find me there. Okay, so lots of good questions today. I like to start |
| 0:55.6 | with something a little easy, just kind of ease us in. So the first question that I'm going to answer |
| 1:01.0 | is what's your favorite cold summer treat, sweet or savory? I don't know what a savory cold treat |
| 1:08.3 | would be like frozen pretzels. I tend to be a savory snack person, but if it's going to be cold, |
| 1:15.9 | I'm going to be honest. Coffee ice cream is always going to be my choice, and I really struggle |
| 1:21.2 | with being an adult and understanding that if I eat ice cream that has caffeine in it at 9 p.m., |
| 1:29.1 | I'm not going to be able to go to sleep on time. So I would say once a season, I forget, and I eat |
| 1:35.5 | ice cream or even more. So like an ice cream sundae at night, and then I am up until 2 a.m. So I have |
| 1:41.6 | to try to get it done in the afternoon, but that's my answer on that. Okay, second level question, |
| 1:48.9 | still kind of a softball, but would you ever consider a European branch of your business, |
| 1:53.8 | like Paris? I mean, if we're talking officially, that seems complicated, notoriously, |
| 1:59.4 | kind of difficult as a foreigner to set up a business in France, especially. So I'm not sure if we |
| 2:04.8 | would have a official branch, but would I like to spend two months in Paris every year? I would, |
| 2:10.2 | but did I partner with somebody who has two small children who have to live in Brooklyn to be |
| 2:14.3 | near their mother as well for the next 10 to 13 years? Yes, I also did that. Not 10 to 13, 10 or 11 years. |
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