Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism

and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life. And now here's your

host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach, Carla Lohanthile.

Hello, my chickens. How are you? This week has been amazing. I have been teaching and

coaching my little face off in the D program patriarchy from your brain boot camp. I know

so many of you attended that. It has been like, be on my wildest expectations of how much

powerful teaching and coaching and learning was going to happen. You guys asked such great

questions. We did so much good coaching and sort of watching all of you really learn how

to get the patriarchy out of your brain in real time has just been so incredible. So if you

missed it this time, I get it. I understand I don't blame you for feeling like you missed

out, but I do think we will do this again because it was such an amazing experience. And

I should say also if you join the clutch, you will get the replays from this for free.

So if you are bummed out that you missed it and you want to be able to watch all of the

teaching and coaching we did, you still can't be in real time. But if you join the clutch,

you'll get access three places. That's just on Fakirbrain.com for slash the clutch. So

today I am talking to several of my advanced certification students all about one of the

big themes actually that has been coming up in the boot camp, which is the authority

or lack of authority that women feel in their lives. And I think one of the things that

has become so obvious as I have been teaching and coaching around patriarchal socialization

all this week is who were shown has authority, who we are shown is empowered to make decisions,

who we are shown can trust their own decisions or instincts or thought processes. Women are

socialized to not trust themselves and to not see themselves as authoritative. And so

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