Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism

and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life. And now here's your

host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach, Carla Lohanthile.

Can you know my dears? I just got back from a week in New Orleans and so if I

sound weird and stuffy it's because my head does not like changing climates. So I

might sound a little horse today. I had an amazing week there. Some of you might

know I clerked for two years in New Orleans for a judge on a fifth-circuit court

of appeals and so I lived there for two years and I go back as often as I can. I

still have a place down there and there's just there's something about New Orleans

that I don't know just speaks to my soul. You know my thoughts create my feelings but I have a

lot of thoughts about New Orleans that are about loving it and I think that is such a

gift to have a place that feels like home and it also makes me so grateful for all of the

thought work that I did to get myself from leaving the law and being kind of constrained

to one place and creating this business and this life that lets me travel and work

from wherever I want. I think we all have different priorities but for me having the

flexibility and the freedom to move around like that to be able to work remotely to not

be stuck in one particular place to be able to you know yeah go to your get ten I'm

a ten named if I want and then work later that was so so important to me and it was

something that I gave up for a while when I was trying to kind of fit myself into the

constraints of the legal profession in a way that didn't work for me. Now some of you

love that you love structure you do great with structure and that's awesome too there's

no right or wrong about this but for those of you who are kind of stuck in a structure

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