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U Update: He Wouldn't Call Me His Girlfriend

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 6 March 2020

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

On this special “Where Are They Now” episode, J & J receive an update email from a listener who was dating a guy that wouldn’t call her his girlfriend. First, they listen back to their original advice from the March 27th, 2019 episode titled “Is Refusing To Define The Relationship A Dealbreaker?" Then they read her full update, telling us whether or not they're still together, which predictions they got right, and why people find it so hard to take good advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:04.6

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0:09.3

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0:20.3

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0:33.2

So guys, we wanted to introduce you to a new series we're doing with you up where we update you

0:37.8

on the people who have emailed us in the past and where they are now and if they took our advice

0:42.8

and how that went. Yeah, we get these messages a lot where they're like, hey, so what happened

0:49.2

with you? Like, listen, what happened with the girl where the guy was definitely cheating on her,

0:54.1

but you think he was. And sometimes we do the live shows or I go on the road and people are like,

1:00.1

you'll never remember the email where I'm at email and this is what happened and we get the update

1:06.1

and we remember, you know, some of most of them, I remember a good amount of them, but it's also like

1:11.5

a lot of the, you know, we don't give this advice to keep score on whether we're right or wrong. We

1:17.6

are here to discuss these things and see how we feel in relation to these. It's never like, you know,

1:23.4

I think the worst people get advice from the ones that are like, well, I was right, right? Right.

1:27.8

Like, we're not looking to be right because a lot of these things could kind of sad to be right it,

1:31.6

you know, like, yeah, I mean, it's also interesting to know if we were right.

1:35.5

Yeah, but sometimes we're not just going to share the ones where our advice changed the person's

1:39.3

life for the better. Sure. We'll share the ones also where the where, you know, maybe we were wrong,

1:43.5

maybe we had it wrong and you guys had it the right way. Shark Tank sometimes shares those

1:47.9

episodes where, you know, they're like, they didn't get an offer, but they're still doing well.

1:52.0

Maybe that could be you. I don't know. It might be you. We want to hear from everyone with your

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