both the boys and the girls were defining female satisfaction

completely incorrectly you know a and the girls were doing it too because they were

going back and saying they were going back and saying you know oh I had an orgasm or you know whatever they was going back and saying, you know, oh, I had an orgasm or, you know, whatever.

They were going back and saying, he lasted, you know, however long and he had a big dick,

you know, that that's not going to work. But also that it was really clear in the girl book that hookup culture was not serving girls very well for the most part.

I mean, there were things that they liked about it, but mostly it was teaching them what they didn't want.

And they had a lot of anger and a lot of betrayal about that, but what

was interesting about the boys was that it wasn't serving them very well either. And they

didn't speak in terms of anger and betrayal so much, but they did speak in terms of anger and betrayal so much but they did speak in terms of

disconnection and you know as one guy said to me it's like two people having very

distinct experiences you know there's not a lot of eye contact there's a lot of not a lot of

communication it's like you're acting vulnerable without being vulnerable with

somebody that you don't know or care about very much and he said that's you know

just kind of odd and not really very fun.

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Now, hear your co-host, Dr. Ann Kelly, and Sue Marriott. Hey everyone, welcome to our first episode of the New Year.

I know Sue and I are really ready to usher in 2021 and we

imagine that's a pretty common sentiment for most of our listeners across the

world. It was a tough one and of course it still is.

But we are ready for the new year and ready to continue to take deep dives on so many topics.

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