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That's So Fcked Up

TSFU INTERVIEWS: Ep. 3- Mary Byler, Founder of The Misfit Amish

That's So Fcked Up

Ashley Love Richards

Comedy, True Crime, Society & Culture

4.5541 Ratings

🗓️ 22 July 2024

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

We have covered many aspects of Amish life, but in today's episode of TSFU Interviews, Fallon gets an insider perspective from Mary Byler, Amish abuse survivor and CEO and founder of The Misfit Amish, LLC, a group that works to "bridge the gaps between English and Amish culture." Mary is also the author of "Reflections and Memories of An Amish Misfit: "My therapist says that's not true, but I digress". AND, as if that wasn't enough, they also host the podcast, The Misfit Amish and appeared in the Peacock docuseries, "Sins of the Amish", which we discussed in Episode 155- Amish Cults: Beneath the Bonnet.

Mary was born Old Order Amish but escaped in 2004 after being sexually abused most of their life. Now Mary works to bring visibility to LGBTQ Amish and advocate for Amish children suffering abuse.

Please check out Mary's website, The Misfit Amish. You can purchase Mary's book on Amazon!

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*TRIGGER WARNING - SA


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, what you're about to hear is an interview with me and Mary Beiler, who is the author

0:07.7

of the book, Reflections and Memories of an Amish Misfit. My therapist says that's not true,

0:13.4

but I digress. Came on to do an interview with us. And who are you, Fallon? Sorry, just in case

0:20.6

you're new here. Sorry, Fallon Mori. And I'm Ashley Love Richards. And who are you, Fallon? Sorry, just in case you're new here.

0:21.2

Sorry, Fallon, Mori.

0:23.1

And I'm Ashley Love Richards, and I wasn't at the interview because I'm working on a

0:28.6

separate interview segment.

0:30.3

That's about unfucking your mental health.

0:32.5

Watch out for that, you guys.

0:33.9

Fallon is, like, I guess, I don't figuratively, but like literally doing the heavy lifting interview wise right now.

0:41.4

Yeah, I'm just doing a lot of the book-based ones and the non-mental health specific based ones.

0:47.9

And a lot of them happen to be on pretty heavy topics.

0:51.7

So kudos to you.

0:52.7

True. True.

0:57.5

And we're just wanted to record this little correction.

1:02.4

I had the chance to speak to Mary after our interview and they cleared some things up for me that may be misconceptions some people have about the Amish. So if you listened to the Amish episode

1:10.2

already, awesome. Here are some little updates.

1:13.7

If you have not, you should totally do so because it will really enhance the experience of

1:20.1

this interview if you have a deeper knowledge. And we actually touch on a little bit of Mary's

1:25.8

story specifically at the end of the first

1:29.0

episode on the Amish that we released.

1:31.2

It all goes together.

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