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The Art of Charm

Toolbox | Defeat Your Deepest Fears and Become Unstoppable

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Health & Fitness, Education, Business

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 28 June 2021

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we cover becoming unstoppable with AJ, Johnny, and Michael. Anyone can develop confidence that makes you unstoppable, but what does it even mean to be unstoppable, what is stopping you from being more confident today, and why does avoiding the process lead to feeling miserable? What to Listen For Why do most people never become confident? – 3:22 What is the biggest misconception people have about developing confidence? What are the 3 reasons people can’t start being more confident? – 5:30 What assumptions do you make about other people that get in the way of developing your confidence? What does a real-world definition of confidence look like? What does it mean to have unstoppable confidence? – 11:00 How should you start thinking about your thoughts and emotions if you want unstoppable confidence? Why is it dangerous to wait for you to have confidence before taking action? Stop reading books and take action – 18:00 Why does avoiding your fears make taking action more difficult? Why does reading too much actually cripple your ability to grow and reach your potential? Why does avoiding discomfort cause life to suck? – 25:50 Why is it detrimental to your growth to surround yourself with people who avoid fear and who should you surround yourself with? What can you do to start attracting a high-value social circle? – 32:20 Why is growth impossible as long as you are in your comfort zone? How do confident people think about fear and anxiety? – 50:45 The path to unstoppable confidence is a simple one. Stop reading books and take action, stop avoiding discomfort in life because avoiding it will cause your life to suck, and attract high-value social circles by thinking about fear and anxiety differently than most people do. A Word From Our Sponsors Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrates your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here! Resources from this Episode Become Unstoppable with the Art of Charm Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the Articharm podcast to show design to help you communicate with power and become unstoppable on your path from hidden genius to influential leader.

0:10.3

We know you have what it takes to reach your full potential and each and every week we share with you,

0:16.4

interviews and strategies to help you transform your life by helping you unlock your x factor,

0:23.0

whether you're in sales, project management, engineering, medicine, building client relationships or even looking for love.

0:30.5

We got what you need. You shouldn't have to settle for anything less than extraordinary.

0:36.5

I'm AJ and I'm Johnny.

0:38.5

Now thank you everyone for tuning in for today's toolbox episode.

0:43.0

That's right, we're breaking down how you can become unstoppable.

0:48.0

Now we know you can't reach your goals if your fears, doubts and insecurities are standing in your way.

0:54.5

That's why today Michael, our head coach is joining us to discuss why you're struggling to defeat your inner critic,

1:01.5

dispel the biggest myths in growing your confidence.

1:05.5

What science shows is actually the most effective way to become fearless and the real definition of confidence.

1:13.5

Michael, thanks for joining us. Let's kick this off. Now over the last few toolboxes, we discussed becoming a powerful communicator,

1:23.5

which is step one in our unlock your x factor formula.

1:28.5

Now what we mean by x factor if you've been following the show is how do you go from ordinary to extraordinary?

1:35.0

What is that factor that makes you extraordinary and allows you to reach the success and potential you know you have?

1:43.0

Now over the last year we've asked all of our show guests what their x factor is and we've taken all of those responses from super successful guests.

1:53.0

And to still down what we believe are those necessary steps that you have to take on your path to unlocking your x factor.

2:02.0

Well today we want to talk about step two becoming unstoppable.

2:07.0

Once you're a powerful communicator, well the only thing holding you back from taking that next step might be your own mind, fear, insecurity, self doubt.

2:17.0

So today Michael and Johnny are joining me to break down how we can become unstoppable and have the confidence to face down those fears and reach a state of freedom where we can take action in any area of our life that we truly desire.

2:34.0

Now we have some myths to discuss around building confidence you're not alone in having self doubt and unfortunately our evolutionary biology and modern mainstream media are working against us and after we dispel some of these myths around what it takes to truly become confident.

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