What is going on, everyone, and welcome back to the channel. I hope you're all doing well.

Now, this episode is probably for the girls. I've got three relationship-based stories in this one

that are all relatively similar. The first, though, is exceptionally important, and it's the first,

for a reason. I need you all to listen to this one. Sit back, relax, let's get straight into it.

Tomorrow I am ending it with my abusive boyfriend of four and a half years and I'm out of my mind.

Can the female hive mind have read it please just tell me it will be okay.

This was originally posted on November the 2nd, 2025.

It's all safely planned.

Meeting in a public place. A friend waiting nearby with transport, landlord coming to change the locks, got a long-term therapist,

distant family, but a good support network of friends who are gathering round hard. Ella Fitzgerald's

Let No Man write my epitaph has been playing on repeat all day. It feels strange and

unsafe, but not wrong. So much more than so many women who are or have been in my situation

and yet I can't breathe. I'm scared of his reaction or reactions, but I plan for most of them.

I'm scared he's going to twist my head and heart until I can't remember who I am or what I need to say and he'll get his way like he always does. I'm scared of what it's going to be like on the other side. Can someone please just tell me it will be okay? All right, let's jump straight into the comments. Somebody said, it will be okay. You've made good plans. It will be okay. You have good people to help. It will be

okay. Don't listen to anything he says. It will be okay. Somebody replied to this saying, I'm actually

hijacking this comment to say you absolutely do not have to actually meet him in person to end things.

Please do not do so out of some sense of social politeness or obligation.

You owe him nothing. Someone else said, if you feel physically or emotionally endangered meeting with him,

you don't have to meet with him. Oftentimes the situation calls for the perpetrator to find out

after the victim has left or put their stuff outside. Remember, you don't need his approval. Victims often get

stuck because they try to get their abuser's approval for their leaving. It's not on you to soothe him.

You each take care of yourselves. Best of luck, you got this. Actually, very good advice. And someone else said,

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