What was the first sign that your partner was cheating?

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Our shared doctor encouraged me to get STD testing because you never know people all the way.

She stood there and said several times that she couldn't violate confidentiality but she

recommended the tests.

And my dumb butt was mad at her for thinking he was

that kind of person. It hit me a year later after I'd caught him with someone else while I was

pregnant. It's been over a decade and let me tell you, hurt fades, anger fades, but feeling dumb,

that sticks. You know what? I respect your doctor for that. You never know people

all the way. It's obviously code. And despite the fact that this was probably them breaking the

confidentiality rules, I think they did the right thing. When he suddenly got too busy for everything,

couldn't text, couldn't call, but somehow always had energy for everyone else.

It's never about being busy. It's about priorities. Yeah, someone else replied, she wasn't cheating,

but this was exactly the nail in the coffin for me. Time for me? Too busy. Time for others? Sure.

He introduced me to his six-month-old infant. Wow. Yeah, I was kind of thinking, how many real

sensible answers are we going to get and how many answers like this are we going to get? I also wonder

if this is true or not. If it is, just wow. For me, it was seeing the guy screwing her. Yep,

that's a pretty good clue. Let's not jump to conclusions.

I'm sure there's a reasonable explanation. Hey, you know, never know. They could have been playing.

God. Just copy off cringe. Texting at a weird angle, body language. That's a good one. I put my phone on the table upside down once and the reaction from my girlfriend was immediate.

Interesting.

I mean, I agree with this comment. I put my phone face down all the time.

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