To compromise, sacrifice, or support no matter what

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni

Therapy, Emotions, Sad, Health, Mental Health, Personal, Abuse, Anxiety, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Psychological, Self-improvement, Mind, Stress, Emotional, Anger, Philosophy, Divorce, Psychology, Addiction, Happiness, Happy, Development, Thinking, Success, Education, Frustration, Sadness, Manipulation, Resistance, Brain, Depression, Overwhelm, Mental

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🗓️ 27 March 2022

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

When it comes to relationships, I think it's best to support the other person as much as possible. The trick is doing so while you disagree with what they're doing. Choosing to instead reject or deny what they want to do for themselves could lead to tension and changes of behavior you may not like. Is it best to sacrifice who you are for them? Or can you reach a compromise? Sometimes even supporting someone you love isn't enough.

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0:00.0	Do you want a wonderful relationship lesson? Think of a conversation you had with someone
0:05.1	you love where you rejected or disagreed with something they wanted to do for themselves.
0:11.7	Got something in mind? Now go up to them and tell them you've reconsidered and not only
0:18.0	support their decision, but will actually help them achieve it if they want or need your
0:23.3	help. This may sound hard, and it often is, but this is the kind of opposite thinking
0:29.9	you sometimes need to heal what may be a breaking or broken relationship. That's one of
0:35.7	the many lessons I teach over in the Healed Being program at HealedBeing.com. If you've
0:41.0	discovered that you're often the difficult one in the relationship and want to change
0:45.0	that about yourself, check out the program and maybe just what you're looking for, HealedBeing.com.
0:51.2	Life presents the toughest challenges. Every day you are faced with decisions that test
0:56.1	your ability to express who you really want to be in this world. We're told to keep
1:00.8	saying affirmations and keep thinking positively, but what do you do when that stuff doesn't
1:06.3	work? Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that are
1:10.9	right for you so that you can create the life you want now.
1:27.1	Hello, this is Paul Coliani, and I want to help you increase your emotional intelligence,
1:32.8	handle toxic situations with grace and ease and give you the tools to show up as your
1:38.7	authentic self. This show consists of my personal opinions and is meant for informational
1:43.7	purposes only, but I hope you get something wonderful from it to help you in your life.
1:50.8	Speaking of someone that apparently this show has helped, I don't want to pat myself
1:55.6	on the back. I'll let him do it. He says, good morning, Paul. Before I say anything,
2:01.5	I just want to thank you for being you and doing all that you do. Your efforts are so
2:06.0	incredibly appreciated. Keep up the good work. Thank you so much. I will do my best. He
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