The Bert show. He cheated on her before they're getting back together again, but her parents are insisting once a cheater, always a cheater, don't go back with this guy and she wants to prove them wrong.

Um, first jumping off point, do you guys believe that once a cheater, always a cheater?

Uh, well, based off of the research that I've read, cheating can actually be genetic.

So I, being the very like like I see things sometimes in black and white. I think I sometimes I think if I found out the person I was cheating or I was dating had cheated I think I 100% believe that they would do it again.

I don't think that I think to the person that you cheat on you will always be a cheater to them

but I do think that people can grow and evolve and

learn and become better it doesn't happen often but I do think it happens.

I was of that mindset for quite some time and then as I had people in my circle who had cheated or had been cheated on

and then had been able to rehabilitate for lack of a better word.

I don't think that's the case anymore.

Now there was one couple I used as a prime example

and they, you know, they got past it and got married and had kids,

but they're getting a divorce.

Okay, I'm with Mo.

I think we're constantly developing as people

if you're a cheater before.

You know the bottom line for me is,

I think when the right person comes along, you don't want to risk it at any way shape or form you respect them you love them and it's just in your past

But there is two different scenarios we're talking about here like yeah I would hopefully like 20 year old you is different than 33 year old you and if you

cheated then on that person you're not going to cheat now. If we're talking about the same person from like a year or two ago that how much growth can you do it a year

can you do and also if you were willing to cheat on that person before what

makes you think you're not going to cheat on that same person again so

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