Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life

lessons and revelations. I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

Before I get to the three signs that your relationship is in trouble, I just want to thank you for listening. Thank you for, if you've ever shared any of my podcast

episodes or told a friend about my podcast.

Sincerely, thank you so much. It's something that I enjoy doing. It doesn't feel like work.

Makes me feel empowered and end of service.

I actually also really like talking to myself.

Well, I don't think I'm actually talking to myself, I'm talking to you, but I am talking to myself in the sense that there's no one in front of me or around me when I'm doing these.

So, um, I... front of me or around me when I'm doing these. So I like it.

It connects me to myself, that nine year old in the 80s

playing with his Legos. I remember I used to lock myself in my room for hours. I mean I

would forget to eat I would lose track of time and I would just have thousands of LEGO pieces that I've collected you know over the years and like every birthday every Christmas I just wanted Legos and I would just get obsessed with building something and then you know eventually come out the

next day or after many hours and show my friends what I've built.

And they didn't care, but you do care.

I can feel it and thank you for that.

So yeah, you know, I talk about connecting to yourself as an important part of growth.

I talk about the reunion, you know, and I think that self-betterment sometimes is about this reunion.

And so I connect to myself that nine-year-old playing with Legos every time I do this podcast in my garage and I want to thank you for listening because if you never if I didn't have anyone listening

You know I don't know if I could continue to do that right because I have bills to pay and

have to be productive and all that but because you and three other people listen to this podcast.

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