Hey, the bird show air fighting over the baby's name the baby's not even born yet. I don't think Cassie's got the email

And I'm gonna go ahead and issue a trigger warning for child loss on this one

Good morning Cassie and Kristen as the two rock star moms on the show

I could really use your advice and opinions as well as the dads out there who may have been in my fiancee situation

My fiance and I are expecting our rainbow baby at the beginning of July

After our miscarriage last year, we couldn't be more excited to have this little bundle of joy

We found out a few months ago that it's a boy and as we started discussing baby names

My fiance mentioned that he would love to pass down his middle name as he got it passed down from his grandfather

Who he admires more than anyone?

I was completely down for this until my mom reminded me that it is also my biological father's middle name

My biological father and I have a very difficult relationship

It's been on and off my entire life. I've had a stepdad since I was two who I considered to be my dad

To name my son the same name as my biological father would be cringeworthy to say the least

My bio father and I do keep in contact and I know that he will think that the baby was named after him if we stick with that middle name

As soon as I was made aware of this I broke the news to my fiancee who was completely

Understanding his mother and father my soon-to-be in-laws weren't as understanding

I could tell that they were very sad about it because this name means a lot to them

And I know it would mean a lot to my fiancee no matter how understanding he says he is

I'd love all of your opinions and advice on what to do with this situation

Do I name my baby after my fiance and his grandfather knowing it's also my biological father's name?

Or do I punish my fiancee and his family by not using it because my biological father is an absolute a-hole

Thank you for your time. I love you all so much love first-time baby naming mama. Yes

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