What's up, love a girl?

I'm just popping in outside of our regularly scheduled program to let you know that I have an incredible

opportunity coming up on March 9th, Saturday, March 9th.

It is called the well-pleased woman workshop.

Let me let you know why this is so necessary.

Because from my experience, us women of faith, we tend to give so much of ourselves and expecting so little

in return in so many different areas of our lives, especially when it comes to dating.

So like, for example, we overaccommodate to make men feel comfortable, right?

And we, a lot of times we forget about our own needs in the process. So we'll do things like,

you know, rearranging our schedule to accommodating a man or his last minute changes or we're consistently

make ourselves available whenever the men that we like want to hang out or even canceling

the plans that we even have to like accommodate him and what he has going on. And we silently

hope that these men will pick up on the fact that we're doing this and going

above and beyond and that they do the same for us without us having to spell it out.

Also, when it comes to men being flaky and inconsistent, we are inconsistent, like, we're so

quick to forgive.

We're so quick to give them the benefit of the doubt and provide all of this grace when

we know that that's not something that we care to

experience. Like, we're programmed to be extremely graceful, even if it means that we end up

feeling overlooked and overvalued, I mean, undervalued. And when it comes to even the plans that

are made, so men to make plans and sometimes we'll go along with it, even if it's not what we

truly want to do. What we'll say is, well, I didn't mind doing that. I didn't mind it,

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