So do you want to talk about our disconnect or do you want me to talk about our disconnect?

I don't know.

What side do you want to be communicated here?

I don't know.

We got like 50 minutes.

Yeah, we've had a hard time.

We mentioned it last week.

You go through seasons in marriage where you're you're just humming along life is dandy

great grand doing great and then you have other seasons where you're just it's like you can't

seem to to sing the same tune yeah it's hard i mean you're just you're you trying, you can't even win for trying, it feels like. And we were, we were having a really hard time connecting. We both kind of felt like, ah, we're connecting in different ways. And then it just felt so shallow and then. And fragile. Fragile, that's a good word for it. We would be connecting and then we would be fighting and then all of a sudden we would be good and then we'd be fighting again. Yeah. So it felt fragile. I don't think it's as much. Maybe you, but I feel good. This is why it's fragile people. No, I think it may, it's, it felt like unsure ground, right?

So then it was just really difficult to try to connect again because we felt so insecure with each other.

So a big part of us kind of connecting again to each other.

And of course, connecting more with God was was prayer.

Prayer is this means of of communing with God, communing with each other.

It's a way to fight for your marriage.

It's a way that we can remember who we are as sinners in living in that humbleness and that

dependence on God.

And prayer really is that way forward in that and showing us our need, right, and who we need to go to.

So with that, we will see you on the other side.

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