The Surprising Secret to Leading an Extraordinary Life
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 15 January 2016
⏱️ 5 minutes
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Summary
Is Facebook killing your confidence? Making you feel like everyone else has a perfect relationship? Chances are it is without you even realizing it. In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I tell you why comparing your life to others’ seemingly perfect existence is a dangerous game…and how you can create an extraordinary life no matter how ordinary your circumstances. Stay tuned to the end because I’m going to leave you with a brilliant quotation that will remind you why your happiness should never be measured against anyone else.
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| 0:00.0 | This is Love Life with Matthew Hussey. I'm glad you're here. Now if you're new to the show, |
| 0:09.6 | don't be fooled by the name Love Life. Yes, we talk all about love and relationships, |
| 0:15.4 | but we also go deeper into every other area to give you advice to explode your career. |
| 0:21.6 | Get the most out of all of your relationships, create amazing opportunities in your life |
| 0:26.5 | and so much more. If you've been following me for a while or if you're new and you like what |
| 0:32.0 | you hear today, please go to iTunes and give this show a five star review and leave a comment. |
| 0:38.0 | It'll help more women like you find and enjoy the show. |
| 0:46.1 | Okay, today's topic, Facebook or Fake Book. We're going to be talking about Facebook and how it has |
| 0:52.4 | a massive impact on our own personal self-esteem and how we can actually avoid that trap. |
| 0:58.1 | What happens is we go on Facebook and we just see how amazing people's lives look on the surface. |
| 1:03.4 | You know, we don't see the reality. What we see is the holiday that they went on and of course |
| 1:09.0 | every part of the year is occupied by one of your friends going on holiday and you look at it and |
| 1:14.2 | you go, oh my god, I'm stuck in this office in the rain and everyone else is having everyone's |
| 1:19.0 | having fun but me. Then you look at people's relationships and you see, you know, ladies, |
| 1:23.7 | I'm sorry, you're more guilty of this than guys are. You see people put up pictures of them |
| 1:29.5 | with their boyfriend and it's like here's us on a beach rock somewhere in Descript. Look how happy |
| 1:36.9 | we are and they were on that rock for a grand total of one minute. In fact, they probably, she made |
| 1:42.2 | him climb up onto that rock for a photo that she planned for Instagram or Facebook but it looks |
| 1:49.5 | amazing and everyone goes, oh my god, everyone's relationship is better than mine but of course, |
| 1:54.8 | that represents 1% of their entire relationship, the rest of the time they're doing normal stuff |
| 2:00.4 | and everyone gets frustrated. Now the problem is that makes us insecure about our own lives |
| 2:06.1 | and we don't compensate by trying to do more exciting things. We tend to compensate by giving up. |
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