I'm Matthew Hussey. Welcome to Love Life, which is now by popular demand a podcast on iTunes.

I couldn't be more excited to deliver on something that women in my community have been

asking for for years and to reach a whole new audience of women who want to live their

best lives. Whether that means an amazing relationship, a satisfying social life, the career

of their dreams or all of these things and more. Now, before I give you some helpful advice,

you can use right now. I need to ask you a favour. Under my podcast picture on iTunes,

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Let's start the show.

Okay, so we've been getting a lot of questions here. People wanting to ask their personal

stuff on the phone. So we have one of them right now. Hello, who do we have on the line?

Hi, my name is Sarah. I'm a huge fan. What's happening? What's your question for today?

Okay. When girls like a guy, we tend to spend hours looking at their social media.

Do guys look at ours and how much do they stalk our social profiles?

They stalk you, but in different ways.

You're probably looking at what school he went to, what he's doing for work. Does his life

look good? Are his friends cool? You're looking at his lifestyle and, you know, unconsciously

or consciously looking at it and saying, is this a guy I could spend time with? Is this

a guy that I'd want to meet up with and be around? He's looking at how hot you are in each

picture. Okay. And that's fine, by the way, because it's like, you know, he was like,

oh, men are such pigs. But the truth is he's just not motivated right now by the idea of,

let's say, having a relationship with someone that he doesn't really know what he's looking at is,

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