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U Up?

The Silent Relationship Killer you CAN Avoid ft Aleen Dreksler

U Up?

Betches

Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Comedy

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2026

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

This week on U Up?, Jared is joined by Aleen Dreksler, CEO and co-founder of BETCHES, for a chaotic and honest deep dive into mama drama, ex etiquette, and career vs. kids debates. They discuss boundaries with mother-in-laws and what you can negotiate versus when you should just say nope, covering everything from holiday turf wars to posting your baby on Instagram without permission. Then it’s petty or prudent when an ex crashes a run club and sends a seriously annoying “it’ll get easier over time” text. Plus, an Icky or Picky ruling on a second date who announces a strict “no phones at the table” policy like he’s running a dictatorship. Be sure to not miss updates from Jordana! 👉 https://subscribe.betches.com/u-up-with-benefits Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I'm doing I like I started doing a bit where I'll be at I'll be dead in my coffin and I'll like be hovering above and my mom will be going you just go up to any murderer.

0:15.5

Hello and welcome to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jared Freed and I am joined by today's co-host, Aileen Drexler. Thank you for coming on. Hi. Thank you. I am nervous. How are you nervous? And in the same podcast studio that I record in every week. Yeah, you're here. And yet I'm on U-Up. And I'm in Jordana's seats. Well on let's talk about the chairs if we have to talk about

0:38.0

the chairs I walked in I've been sitting in the skinny chair and then I walk in and alien goes

0:44.1

you can sit on your couch now you fat fuck get to your fat loser chair I'm in the skinny chair

0:51.7

she said I'm the CEO you get out of chair. That's what she said to me.

0:56.6

Yeah. Fuck off. You're in the great chair. No, listen, Alien, it is a pleasure to have you back.

1:02.0

I know. Episode one. I was here. You were here. It was me. You, Trinana, Sammy. The whole gang.

1:09.4

Four founders in a dorm.

1:11.6

We all got back together.

1:13.7

How are you?

1:14.7

What's going on?

1:15.5

You are doing, if people aren't following you on the socials.

1:20.1

I'll give you my view on what you're doing.

1:22.0

You're doing boss bitch Instagram.

1:25.6

You are showing the life of a founder CEO and you're giving us the real

1:31.3

I think is there a lot of faking it in that world? Yes, many people. I'm saying you're doing it.

1:37.3

I see it and I go, Aileen is doing everything you're doing on social media. That is how I know you.

1:41.8

Yes. You are doing the company. You're trying to take

1:45.6

this, you know, betches and go from one, you know, one height to another height. Constant height

1:52.3

mode. Constant height mode. You are climbing mountains. Everything is true to form. But I think out there

1:58.8

that I see it, I think everyone, if I'm seeing it, everyone's seeing it.

2:02.0

Yeah.

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