I'm Matthew Hussey. Welcome to Love Life, which is now by popular demand a podcast on iTunes.

I couldn't be more excited to deliver on something that women in my community have been

asking for for years and to reach a whole new audience of women who want to live their

best lives. Whether that means an amazing relationship, a satisfying social life, the career

of their dreams or all of these things and more. Now, before I give you some helpful advice,

you can use right now. I need to ask you a favor. Under my podcast picture on iTunes, I want

you to hit the subscribe button. This will make sure that you and I stay connected and

that you'll get each new show as soon as it's released. Did you click subscribe? Great.

Let's start the show.

Now, that seems pretty dry, but I promise you it's not going to be because I think learning

is one of the sexiest things on earth. If we're not learning, we're stagnating and as soon

as you start stagnating, your results will drop in any area of life. As I've gotten more

and more into this area, I guess in some ways the self-development world, although I'm

not a massive fan of the term, as I got more into it, I started to realize there were

different types of people in life. The first type of person is the person who looks at

self-development, looks at people who try and learn and improve themselves and laughs,

snes and says, oh, you're the type of person that needs that. Those are sad, hopeless cases.

How could you need that? Just get on with life. That's one type of person. That type of

person often they've achieved a little bit of success, they get a little bit of ego,

a bit of arrogance, and they think they don't need everything, anything. They become ignorant.

The second type of person is the self-help junkie. They're the person that reads every book,

goes to every seminar and they become this disgusting type of person that cannot actually

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