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Matthew Hussie here with Love Life, we have a question that has been sent in today.

The question is when is it too late to break off your relationship before the holidays?

And how do you do it? This is an interesting question actually,

because we've all been in that situation before where you're trying to figure out

when is the right time to say something that is going to be a car crash essentially.

Could you do it before the holidays? You then have the guilt of wrecking the holidays for somebody.

Should you wait till afterwards in which case you're going to feel like a phony,

the whole way through the holidays while you're thinking about it,

but not telling them the honest truth?

I think that we're always trying to think of, well, if we're this type of person,

we're always trying to think of what's best for the other person in the situation.

When is this going to do the least damage? Well firstly, we have to understand that,

of course, it will do damage. There's no getting around that.

But we have to look practically at this situation. Now interestingly about the holidays,

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