The Secret Calculation People Make About You

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.8 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 11 June 2026

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Did you know your business is a survival asset? In this episode, I share a concept I’ve been obsessing over lately called your “social survival score” and how it may be influencing everything from your friendships to your business growth. I also talk about the lessons I’m learning in one of the hardest seasons of my life, and how challenging experiences often create the greatest breakthroughs. Get ready to rethink networking and relationships so you can create deeper connections, more opportunities, and greater impact. Check out our Sponsors: Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy. Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. Fora Travel - Curious how to become a travel advisor and earn while you explore? Start at http://foratravel.com/happy. Zazzle - Save 25% on your first order today at http://Zazzle.com with code EARN. Monarch Money - Get your first year of Monarch Core for half off at http://Monarch.com with code EYH. Northwest Registered Agent - Visit northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree and start using free resources to build something amazing. HIGHLIGHTS What high performers are looking for before granting access to elite circles. The subconscious calculation behind why people choose who they follow, befriend, and pay. How to become more valuable in business and life. The lesson hard seasons can teach you about connection and growth. How understanding human behavior helps you build stronger relationships. RESOURCES Celebrate 10 Years of Earn Your Happy + Natalie Ellis’ The Freedom-Based Business Method Book Launch LIVE on June 13 in Newport Beach HERE! Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

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0:00.0	This episode is brought to by Shopify.
0:03.4	Try the e-commerce platform I trust for Glosi.
0:05.7	Sign up for your $1 a month trial period at Shopify.com forward slash happy.
0:11.2	Indeed, spend less time searching and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes.
0:16.4	Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75-sponsored job credit to help get your job the premium
0:22.3	status it deserves. Just go to Indeed.com forward slash podcast right now and support our show
0:27.5	by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. Fora Travel. Curious how to become a travel
0:32.4	advisor and earn while you explore. Start at foratravel.com forward slash happy. Zazzle. Save 25% on your first order
0:40.9	today at zazel.com with code earn. Monarch money. Get your first year of Monarch core for half
0:47.8	off at monarch.com with code EYH. Northwest Registered Agent, visit northwest registered agent. Visit
0:53.7	Northwest registered agent.com forward slash earn free,
0:57.3	and start using free resources to build something amazing.
1:01.5	We all have a social survival score, whether you want to know it or not.
1:06.0	Now, to some of you, that might sound a little hunger gamesy.
1:08.6	To others of you, you're going to realize that this shit is real.
1:12.9	And when you know the game and you know how to play it, you're going to start getting everything that you want.
1:24.0	Hey, everyone.
1:24.8	Welcome back to the show.
1:25.8	It's time for another quickie because there's always
1:27.5	time to fit in inspiration. I feel like I'm coming back to life. If you've been listening to this
1:34.9	podcast for a while, you may have been hearing me share that I've been in a tough season.
1:40.0	And while I am still navigating the tough season, I do feel like something is shifting in me from all of the challenge.
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