The REAL reason GODLY men DON'T pursue YOU | THE CHRISTIAN BAE TV | WHERE WIVES WAR
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🗓️ 27 February 2026
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
Hey Baes! In today’s video, we’re talking about the real reason men don’t pursue you, and it may not be what you think.Sometimes the issue isn’t timing, looks, or opportunity… it’s energy, posture, and alignment. In this teaching, we’re breaking down what pursuit actually responds to and how your presence, standards, and spiritual alignment influence the way a godly man approaches you.This is not about changing who you are — it’s about becoming aware of what you’re communicating without realizing it.Grab your journal and let’s get into today’s word. If this video blesses you, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!⸻Digital ProductsSoft&Submitted (Feminine Energy Masterclass): https://thechristianbae.com/products/soft-submitted-masterclassSoft & Submitted Marriage Readiness Scorecard:https://thechristianbae.com/products/soft-submitted-scorecardUpcoming EventsWhere Wives War Workshop (In Person)https://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wive-war-workshopWhere Wives War Workshop (Virtual)https://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wives-war-pt-3-replayWhere Wives War Mentoringhttps://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wives-war-1-1-mentorship-application-requiredMakeup products: https://liketk.it/5Vx6bAmazon two piece: https://www.amazon.com/shop/christianbae/list/2WCCCRL62EBK9?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aip_sf_list_spv_ons_mixed_d_6Y4186VQPDB5HJB4R426⸻If you feel led to sow A Seed:Cash App: $thechristianbaePaypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/TheChristianBaeZelle/Apple Pay: TheChristianBae@gmail.com⸻Things mentioned in today’s video:– Why men pursue (and why they don’t)– Energy vs appearance– Feminine posture and presence– Alignment and attraction– Becoming before being chosen⸻♡ F O L L O W M Y S O C I A L S ♡Instagram: https://instagram.com/thechristianbae_?utm_medium=copy_linkTikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRDTxdR2/⸻Business inquiries: TheChristianBae@gmail.comPO Box 670192Coral Springs, FL 33067
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| 0:00.0 | We meet again. |
| 0:01.0 | Girl, come on in. |
| 0:02.0 | The real reason why men don't pursue you. |
| 0:04.0 | It don't got nothing to do with your looks because you're fine. |
| 0:06.0 | Let's start there. |
| 0:07.0 | Follow me. |
| 0:08.0 | We're walking somewhere. |
| 0:09.0 | You fine. |
| 0:10.0 | Now, if you have not been, we talked about this on Instagram. |
| 0:12.0 | If you have not been working out, if you're not taking care of your appearance. |
| 0:15.0 | We talked about this in another video. |
| 0:16.0 | We talked about this in the soft and submitted master class be a good steward of your appearance you fine you knew that already though |
| 0:21.2 | you knew you was fine before you clicked on this video so you're trying to figure out well because I'm |
| 0:25.3 | fine why the men not finding me and I'm gonna tell you why grab your journals let's let's get into |
| 0:29.5 | first of all godly men are not pursuing you I want you to know that it's not because of your looks |
| 0:33.8 | godly men are not pursuing you because your spirit is not available. |
| 0:43.4 | Proverbs chapter 18 and verse 22 says, he who finds a wife finds a good thing. That means that a wife is findable. Follow me now. We're going somewhere. If no one is pursuing you, the first thing |
| 0:47.6 | you shouldn't do is blame men. We need to examine your posture. Let's look in the mirror. Everything |
| 0:52.8 | ain't the men fault because it says he who finds a wife finds favor. So let's figure out is your posture. Let's look in the mirror. Everything ain't the men fault because it says he who finds a wife finds favor. |
| 0:56.0 | So let's figure out is your posture a posture a favor for you to be found. |
| 1:01.0 | So let's get into the real reasons why godly man may not be pursuing you because it goes deeper than what meets the eye. |
| 1:06.0 | The first reason why godly man may not be pursuing you is because you feel guarded, not gentle. |
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