You DON'T need a husband, you NEED healing.. (Feminine Energy Talk)
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🗓️ 3 March 2026
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Hey bae! Grab your journals!
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| 0:00.0 | And I'm going to hold your hand when I say this. |
| 0:01.6 | You don't need a husband. |
| 0:02.9 | You need healing. |
| 0:03.9 | I know you've been praying to God and asking God to send your husband where he at. |
| 0:06.9 | I'm ready. |
| 0:07.3 | I'm ready. I'm ready. I'm ready. But the thing about God is God can see what you can't see. And God can see that you have not healed in certain parts of your life, in certain parts of your mind, in certain parts of your heart. So God knows if I send that husband, you'll do more hurting than helping because you have not first healed. |
| 0:23.0 | Grab your journals and let's get into it. your heart. So God knows, if I send that husband, you'll do more hurting than helping because you |
| 0:21.7 | have not first healed. Grab your journals and let's get into it. I see right here that you are a woman |
| 0:26.5 | that's praying for covenant while still operating in defense mode. And the thing about defense is when |
| 0:31.6 | you operate from a defensive mode, you're trying to prevent something from happening, which means |
| 0:36.2 | you're already entering the covenant or entering the marriage thinking that you're going to get hurt. That's why you're trying to prevent something from happening, which means you're already entering the covenant |
| 0:37.8 | or entering the marriage thinking that you're going to get hurt. That's why you're operating from a |
| 0:42.1 | defensive place. So that's why it's so important to heal past traumas and heal past wounds. Now, are you |
| 0:48.0 | going to be perfect? No. Are you going to have healed everything before you get married and God sends your |
| 0:52.5 | husband? No, but there are some things |
| 0:54.5 | that God wants you to heal first before he sends the husband so that you don't hurt the covenant |
| 0:59.7 | that he's calling you to. In my new master class, softened submitted, becoming a woman that God |
| 1:04.1 | can trust with marriage, we talk about healing hyper-independence and removing masculine tendencies |
| 1:09.1 | because they cause more harm than help. But a lot of times |
| 1:12.7 | you don't even realize you're hurting the covenant that God has placed you in because you pray for a |
| 1:17.5 | husband before you pray for healing. But that's going to change today. If you're a woman that's |
| 1:21.6 | praying for marriage and God has not sent your husband or you're already married and you've been |
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