A man who cannot respect a 30-day boundary for Allah, subhanna-a-ta-a-a-la, if he can't go 30 days without controlling himself, he's not ready for marriage. He's not thinking about you. He's thinking about himself. You're not just betting for someone who prays him fast. You're betting for someone who prioritizes Allah-Supana-a-ta-a-a-a-a-a-a-lover everything, including you. Welcome to the Mindful Muslim Speaks podcast, a safe space to learn and grow into the best

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you. Let's get started. So before we get started, Ramadan is probably midway right now. How are you doing? I know it's not easy. Probably what you expected it to be right now is. So here's the thing. We kind of know that happens and that's why we have an entire 30-day program. If you feel like you still want that transformation, there is still time. Catch it. We have the entire thing set up for you. You just show up. Check the link below and I'll see you inside. I'm going to start this video with the story. This is a sister named Zainab. She's talking to this guy for months, right? Families know everything's proper. Talks beautiful Islam. Hadith quote, he wants a good wife, God's center. He seems good. And Ramadan approaches and Zainab knows what she's supposed to do. I think we should pause. Let's focus on our worship. He responds immediately. Subhanna-law. I was thinking the same thing. You know, I knew you were different. May Allah bless you Ramadan. She feels good, right? He gets respect. She gets respect. Boundaries. Great. Day three of Ramadan 1047. Her phone's like,

Ramadan, Mubarak, hope you're doing well, just finished Padawi, was thinking

about our last conversation and then he shares something really quick.

Just want to check in see if you're okay. She responds politely but keeps it short.

Day seven, Ramadan, can't sleep and thinking about what you said about marriage.

Can we just talk a few

minutes day 12 during the time of total we i miss you Ramadan feel so long l-o-well right

here's the biggest mistake they make women women women we make excuses for them right oh he's just

thoughtful you know it's just a text it's not hurrah sister let me tell you this might hurt by Oh, he's just thoughtful. You know, it's just a text. It's not haram.

Sister, let me tell you. This might hurt, by the way. He's not thinking about you. He's thinking about himself, right? Most sisters think, he just misses me. He can't help, but it's kind of sweet, actually. Here's the truth you need to hear. A man who cannot respect a 30-day boundary for Allah,

subhanna how he

respects boundaries

and marriage.

You gave him

one, Here's the truth you need to hear. A man who cannot respect a 30-day boundary for Allah, Svhani-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a.

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