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Chasing Excellence

The Raised Hand Rule: How to Know Who You Can Help

Chasing Excellence

Ben Bergeron & Patrick Cummings

Health, Education, Mindset, Crossfit, Wellness, Self-improvement, Holistic Health, Health & Fitness, Fitness

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

The 3 Big Questions We're Answering: 

1. How can we navigate feelings of guilt and responsibility when a friend struggles with addiction or unhealthy behaviors? 

2. What role does being present play in supporting friends who may need help, and how can we create a safe space for them to reach out? 

3. How do we balance our own well-being with the desire to help others, especially when faced with difficult relationships? 

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📍 Ben Bergeron is a best-selling author, coach to 7 CrossFit Games champions, and founder of CompTrain. Find him on Instagram. 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

We believe health is the foundation that unlocks freedom.

0:07.1

The freedom to live fully, to be an asset and not a burden, and to chase what truly matters.

0:13.4

Through daily practices and proven frameworks, we are here to help you build deep health,

0:19.2

find lasting peace, and live with your heart on fire.

0:24.2

Welcome to the chase.

0:26.2

Hello and welcome to another episode of Chasing Excellence.

0:29.6

Thank you so much for joining us this week.

0:31.8

How the heck are you been?

0:33.5

I'm doing good.

0:34.2

Thanks, Patrick.

0:35.0

Good, good, good.

0:36.0

We've got this episode.

0:37.0

A listener question about how to navigate longtime friendships when people are I'm doing good. Thanks, Patrick. Good, good, good. We've got this episode.

0:42.3

A listener question about how to navigate longtime friendships when people change.

0:48.7

This is a question we've got from Canon. He says, I recently had a childhood friend take his own life.

0:51.9

My friend and I lost touch a few years ago due to me moving states.

0:53.9

But this past year, I moved back to my hometown.

0:58.2

I noticed my old friend had negatively changed, fell in with a rough new friend group,

1:03.4

gained weight, had excessive drinking and drugs, and antidepressant medication. As someone who tries to surround myself with people who have a positive impact on me and make me a better person,

1:07.8

I decided not to reach out to my old friend. When I found out my friend

1:10.9

had committed suicide, I felt terrible for not reaching out. Do you have any advice on what I could

1:14.7

have done to help my friend while not putting myself in an unhealthy or unsafe environment?

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