Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

Has it been feeling like I'm just sitting next to you?

Well, not next to you in front of you.

Hopefully I'm not sitting next.

Do you sit next to your friends at coffee shops?

Not directly in front, but you guys sit like you're watching a movie that doesn't

happen doesn't it has it been feeling like I'm just hanging out with you sitting in front

of you at a coffee shop shooting this shit talking about relationships

because that is my whole approach I hope that's shooting this whole thing

whole thing doesn't the whole thing doesn't feel this whole thing doesn't

feel unprofessional the my tone and my approach is a conversational one and that's what I imagine when I'm doing these things.

I'm actually thinking about you sitting in front of me and we're just chatting.

Okay, so I mentioned my predator and prey theory, right, the relationship dynamic.

Now I want to talk about a different relationship dynamic. This one is actually more common.

It's the pursuer slash distancer.

So, one is pursuing, one is after the chase, one has a pattern of pursuing in a relationship

to get the high off that chase and then the other one is

creating distance right the other one is a runner running away now listen there is

that little chasing game that fl, that thing that happens early on when you first start

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