Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

It is a beautiful Wednesday afternoon right before the holidays and there's not a cloud in the

sky.

It is ocean blue here in Southern California.

Makes me so grateful that I live here.

And I've been here my entire life,

but man, this weather, I called it year-round motorcycle weather,

because. weather I called it year-round motorcycle weather because if you ride in California you

could pretty much ride every day the entire year. I like I like two modes I like the overcast gloomy cloudy not freezing but cold day where you just want to write or eat soup and grilled cheese or just

have lots of sex like you don't want to leave your house it's very cozy I

love that weather and then I love the 75 degree breeze. There has to be a breeze. It can't just be dead heat. None of this desert red bullshit. I don't understand the whole let's go live in the desert.

And I have friends that do. So I respect what they want, but I can't do triple digits where you could fry an egg on the sidewalk. I don't get that.

But the 75 degrees with a slight breeze that is it's heavenly.

Anyway, on today's episode, we're going to talk about

infidelity and how to forgive

when your partner cheats on you.

This is a topic that I get so many questions on.

And so I got another question today

and it was, I want to really forgive my partner but how do I how do I do

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