What actually builds respect within the context of a relationship? What allows a woman to build

respect for you? This is a big question that a lot of men have. And as you've probably seen or

experienced yourself firsthand, the more you try and get a woman to respect you, the more the adverse side effect of her not respecting you happens and the harder it is for you to respect you.

And so in this video, in this episode, I'm going to dive into the psychology of respect, what actually builds respect in a relationship, and why women choose to be with men,

women want to be with men that they respect, that have that strength, instead of the man

that's emotionally compliant. So let's dive straight in. Don't forget to hit the like and subscribe

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First things first, you cannot be respected and emotionally compliant or compliant all the time

at the same time. So you can be one or the other.

And the challenge for many of you is that if you're a nice guy, if you're a people pleaser,

the likelihood that you grew up in a household that conditioned you to be overly compliant

to prioritize other people's needs, to put their desires

ahead of your own, their needs ahead of your own is very, very high. And if you watch a lot of

social media content, especially content largely from women that are dating coaches. A lot of the times there's this

inadvertent message to men that how you should behave and operate is very compliant. If you are just

nice and you get along, go along with what she wants and what she says and what she desires,

then you're going to be happy.

She's going to be happy and you're going to get along and everybody's going to be hunkie

and that's just not how it works. Most men will spend years quietly erasing themselves in the

relationship. They will walk on eggshells. They'll concede to whatever she wants. They'll watch the show she wants, go to the restaurant she wants, do the things that she wants to do that he thinks is going to make her happy. Because in most men's brains, how they approach relationships, and maybe you've felt this, I certainly have in the past. I want to make her happy. And so what should I do?

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