Hello there listeners, it's Stephen Hussey here and welcome to the Love Life podcast as always.

Now I don't know about you but when you see someone on a day who's laughing a lot, who's

making jokes, who's talking it up, nine times out of ten, that person thinks to themselves,

I'm really good at this flirting stuff.

And I've noticed that about flirting.

You kind of have two camps, you kind of have people who maybe say, I'm really bad at that

sort of thing and I get nervous and I don't really know how to flirt.

And then you get some people who are just totally confident that they get it.

They're like, yeah, flirting, I understand that stuff.

I know how to do it.

I know how to make snappy jokes.

I know how to be charming.

I know how to talk.

And yet it's very common.

But you know, Matt and I, Matt and I a couple of years ago did this TV show in Australia.

And when we were filming that show, there was a segment where they had that the women on

the show, we actually got to watch them go on one-on-one dates.

And these women on paper had plenty going on.

They were all intelligent.

They could all hold a conversation.

But when you actually watch them on the date,

sometimes so one of the women was perfectly friendly.

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