I'm Dr. Becky, and this is Good Inside.

I kind of got sidetracked by my oldest a couple of weeks ago when he said,

no, why didn't you have my brother sooner?

So that I would have someone my age to play with.

You know, I know they love each other, but I really want to help them

have a good relationship.

Having a sibling is hard, and when one of your kids complains about the other kid,

or wishes that their sibling was different, it's tricky.

Do we hold space for those feelings? What about defending our other kid?

How do we manage the feelings our kid has about their sibling?

This is exactly what we're going to get into, more after this.

Not much matters more than helping our kids develop confidence.

And the way I see it, confidence comes from watching yourself, work hard,

tap into your creativity, and do things you might not always do.

So if confidence is where we want our kids to get to,

what is a tool to get them there?

Well, KiwiCo is a tool to develop confidence.

Each month, my kid gets a box delivered right to them,

with a hands-on project designed to spark creativity and engage problem solving.

But my kids don't know this is what's happening.

They just see it as a form of play.

I've watched all my kids love their KiwiCo crates,

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