The Most EYE OPENING Speech On What It Takes To FIND & KEEP Real Love! | Lisa Bilyeu

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 16 January 2023

⏱️ 91 minutes

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What it takes to find and keep love can involve a lot of pain, heartache, and lessons along the way. There’s no need to prolong the result you want and continue making the same mistakes. Today’s episode is an open, vulnerable and honest conversation about how to love yourself and attract the right kind of people in your life. One of the most important things discussed in this episode is how to navigate your perfectly imperfect relationship to make it last through the good and bad times. Steph Purpura is co-founder of Powerful U where her goal is to improve billions of people by helping them evolve their self-esteem, their mental well-being, and more. She went through a childhood feeling lost and worthless and has been able to repurpose her pain to find meaning and fulfillment. Emily Morse, better known as Dr Emily the host of Sex with Emily has been liberating people to have better and more meaningful conversations about sex and pleasure. Navigating a healthy and fulfilling sex life is hard, Dr Emily makes is super easy with her bestselling books, lots of free resources, and the #1 Sexuality podcast around. Tom and Lisa have been married over 20 years learning how to encourage, love, and support each other’s biggest ambitions while continuing to grow and evolve together. They are co-founders of Impact Theory and an example of what a high power couple with love, goals, and communication skills can accomplish. Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Follow Steph Purpura: Website: https://powerful-u.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePowerfulU Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/powerful.u/ Follow Emily Morse: Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Email: [email protected] Podcast: https://sexwithemily.com/listen/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ Follow Tom Bilyeu: Website: https://impacttheory.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Sponsor: Find your next fleece, parka, or winter jacket in-store or at thenorthface.com. When you’re wearing The North Face, it’s more than a jacket. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:50.9	I think we need to start from square one, which is how I said in the intro, is I think we as women need to work on ourselves first. In fact, not even women. I think people, in order to have a successful relationship, really need to work on ourselves. Because we bring in so much past into our current relationship. Things that happen in our childhood, bad relationships, we can't help
1:12.2	but bring them into our new ones. And I think that that's our first fundamental mistake.
1:18.0	So I'd like to start with you, Steph. You have a quote which just really hit me. You said,
1:23.2	don't let the fear of being alone be greater than your own self-respect. Love yourself enough to
1:28.6	walk away from an unhealthy relationship. So let's talk about that. Step one. How did you come to that
1:36.2	conclusion, especially based on everything you have gone through in your past? I think your past
1:42.5	always dictates your future. And I got to a point where I sat down and said,
1:49.7	I've had enough. And I don't want to be lonely and I don't want to be sad and I don't want to
1:54.9	hate myself anymore. But I don't want to be with all these terrible people and to try to like define myself worth.
2:03.8	I had to find that in myself and realize I was good enough to find somebody that would
2:10.5	treat me amazing.
2:12.5	Because initially did you find that you were looking for that self-worth from somebody else?
2:17.3	Absolutely. I wanted
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