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The Mental and Physical Toll of "Perfectionism" | Starting Strength Gyms Podcast #31

Starting Strength Radio

Mark Rippetoe

Training, Fitness & Nutrition, Strength, Barbell, Health, Fitness

4.6740 Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2022

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Ray Gillenwater talks with Shelley Wells about her experience with the burdens of perfectionism and how Starting Strength has helped her overcome struggles. 02:32 Shelley's PRs 04:17 Negative expectations for women 05:49 Comparing ballet and lifting cultures 08:29 Food culture around ballet 13:45 Advice for other women 14:30 Exercise as a form of punishment 20:59 Burdens of perfectionism 31:01 Physical changes experienced 50:02 Desire to protect the brand

Transcript

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0:00.0

Mildly entertaining, somewhat obscure guests, relatively interesting topics,

0:07.0

semi-professional production quality, reasonably well-informed commentary, a great value for the money,

0:14.8

hundreds of fans all around the world. It's the starting strength gyms podcast with your host, Ray Gillingwater.

0:30.3

Today we're here with Shelley Hancock Wells. You may have seen the episode I did with

0:35.3

Josh Wells. So this is Josh's wife.

0:40.3

She works at Starting Strength Houston.

0:43.3

She's been around Rip A Toe a long time as well.

0:45.4

She's been a starting strength coach for a while.

0:47.9

She is a lifelong athlete.

0:50.7

She's got some good stories this year. And she has a very unique perspective as a lifelong female athlete,

0:55.3

especially one that's around my age and the things that, you know, the cultural stuff that we

1:01.3

dealt with as children, especially women and kind of the negative expectations, I guess,

1:08.9

is the way to put it, that a society had on women, especially female

1:12.3

athletes. So I thought this topic was important because I by no means am connected to pop

1:18.0

culture in 2022, but I imagine there's still plenty of issues when it comes to society's pressures

1:25.0

on young people and especially women. And I remember seeing those issues firsthand

1:29.5

growing up. So Shelley, let's first define the problem. I mean, you were a ballerina when you were

1:36.3

young. You dealt with the unfair expectations of perfectionism. I imagine that came along with

1:43.7

some eating issues, some body image

1:45.7

issues, a bunch of negative stuff that it seems like you've overcome really well as an adult.

1:51.4

And now you're strong as hell. I'd actually like to start there. So what are your PRs? And then

1:57.0

let's talk about the problem that I mentioned. And I want to hear how you might define that.

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