The Key To Dating An Avoidant Woman

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Relationships, Mental Health, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 591 Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2024

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Talking points: attachment, avoidance, relationships This is thicker one, my friends. I’ve been asked by a lot of you to cover this, and here goes. There’s straightforward tactics in here for both men and women that will help you move more easily into deeper and longer lasting connection. Listen in. (00:00:00) - Intro, some of the internal beliefs an avoidant woman has learned, and what caused them (00:06:08) - Avoidant women tend to attract savior-oriented men. Here’s why (00:09:26) - What to do as a couple, and tactic #1 for women: communicate your needs, but start smaller (00:13:42) - #2: shifting from self-protection to relational connection (00:16:33) - #3: lean into conflict, not away, plus a couple things that will help you with this (00:19:58) - Guys, your turn. #1: move from questions to statements (00:23:20) - #2: give thanks instead of criticism (00:25:18) - #3: be clear about expectations *** Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	All right, team, welcome to the band talk show.
0:07.0	Connor Beaten here.
0:08.1	Today, we're going to be talking about the keys to dating avoidant women.
0:13.5	Now, this is a topic that so many of you have asked for so many men in the Alliance,
0:18.4	the online membership that I run, so many guys on Instagram, on YouTube have said,
0:23.1	how do I date an avoiding woman? What do I do? She shuts down. She pulls away. How do I operate? And I'm going to lay this out today. And in the video, I'm going to talk about a couple of things. I'm going to tell you what creates an avoidant woman. and then I'm going to talk directly to you ladies and say here are the things that you
0:39.9	specifically need to do. I'm going to talk directly to you ladies and say,
0:38.8	here are the things that you specifically need to do. I'm going to give you three things that you
0:42.0	need to take action on in order to shift towards a more secure attachment. And then, guys,
0:47.5	I'm going to give you three things that you can implement and deploy in order to create a
0:52.8	maintain connection. So this is something that I would
0:56.2	really recommend that you listen to with your partner. So you might want to send it to them.
1:01.2	You might want to save it and watch it together, whatever that is and however it looks like for
1:05.5	you. But don't forget to subscribe and hit the bell notification to get notified when I drop more videos
1:11.5	because I have a lot more coming around these types of topics. So where do we begin?
1:18.0	Well, first and foremost, no, don't run. No, avoiding women are not damaged. They're not
1:23.6	dangerous. They're not an issue. It's been very interesting to see the commentary
1:30.1	and the narrative about avoiding attachment styles online, men or women alike. It's been very
1:35.7	interesting because anxious people don't generally get demonized for their anxious behaviors.
1:41.6	However, avoidant attachment styles get demonized like nobody's business. They're called
1:47.5	all kinds of things. And it was very interesting to see this dichotomy and this polarity emerge because
1:53.6	I was once an avoidant person, but that, you know, this language wasn't really around. And so,
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