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The Look & Sound of Leadership

The Intentional Leader

The Look & Sound of Leadership

Essential Communications - Tom Henschel

Education, Executive Presence, Management, Careers, Executive Coaching, Self-improvement, Business

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2020

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

This month’s coaching conversation wrestles with the obstacles that arise when you try listening to people who think out loud – often at great length!

This month’s coaching conversation is wide-ranging. It includes a leader’s story about being buoyed by her team. She and Tom also swap answers to a favorite question of her team’s: “How’re ya coping?” They then explore managing stress through being present and intentional.

Three questions to help you become present:

What am I doing right now?

What feelings am I having right now?

What is happening in my body right now?

Approach these questions with curiosity. Don’t ask with an intention to fix. The intention is just to notice.

You can explore self-management and self-awareness in the archive using the filters:

Managing Yourself

Personal Growth & Self-Development

You can take a deeper dive with these five episodes:

Combating Emotional Hijacks

Connecting Over Video

Inviting Dialogue

Self-Awareness & Self-Management

The Mindful Executive

The archive is at:

https://essentialcomm.com/podcast/

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Be in touch with Tom at:

https://essentialcomm.com/contact/

Until next month, wishing you health and safety!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the Look and Sound of Leadership. An ongoing series of

0:06.8

executive coaching tips designed to help you be perceived in the workplace the way

0:10.9

you want to be perceived. I'm Tom Henschel, your executive coach, and today

0:16.0

we're talking about the intentional leader. Jen was telling me how her team had adapted during the work-from-home order.

0:26.4

She said, I'm so proud of them.

0:30.7

They started these morning meetings, to tell the truth. At first I was not all that fired

0:36.2

up about them. I mean, but there was no way that I could tell them no. Oh, well, I have to tell

0:40.8

you, they've become the best part of everyone's day, mine included.

0:46.4

Many years earlier Jen had been my coaching client.

0:49.9

Nowadays she and I had catch-up calls three or four times a year. This conversation

0:55.6

was the first time we'd spoken since the lockdown began. There was a lot to

1:00.0

catch up on. Continuing about her team she said, so they declared we were going to have

1:04.8

30 minutes where we wouldn't talk business and we wouldn't talk virus and wasn't going

1:10.1

to be once a week every morning. Now you can imagine me. I'm sitting there smiling because I know they

1:15.8

can all see me. And what am I doing? I'm counting up all the lost hours in my head. But oh, Tom, it's been so much much fun and they have been so creative I don't

1:26.1

think we ever could have had a connection like this in the office time well

1:30.7

spent I'm glad for you Jen and look I miss being in the office I really do.

1:39.0

I miss all those little hallway moments I mean I always felt that was where the real work

1:43.3

got done anyway not in meetings. I miss dropping by people's offices. That was

1:47.9

certainly how I managed my team. By the way they could be planning an armed revolt right now and I would never know it.

1:55.0

Oh, Jen, I said, you've managed remote employees before.

1:59.0

Well, yeah, but the point is, I miss being in the office because I get so much juice from my team when we're together.

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