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The Angry Therapist Podcast

The Hidden Dynamics of Love and Healing

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2026

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, John unpacks relationship truths no one really prepares you for. From missing who you were in a relationship, to being healing and still drawn to old patterns, this conversation explores what love, compatibility, and growth actually look like. He also breaks down why real compatibility is about more than shared interests, how nervous systems shape relationships, and why steady love may be healthier than the kind that feels electric. A grounded episode on heartbreak, healing, patterns, and choosing differently. 🎙️ Host Links: 📘 Read John’s new book in progress Sh*t Your Therapist Would Never Tell You on John’s SubStack ⁠HERE⁠ If you’re ready for deeper work, the Secure Self course is available HERE Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

What I've dedicated my life to is revenge.

0:04.7

A brand new drama based on the best-selling novel.

0:07.5

They think they're better than us.

0:08.5

Who do you think you are?

0:09.8

I'm going to prove to them that they're wrong.

0:11.5

She's punishing me.

0:13.0

You destroyed my family.

0:14.3

I will not rest until I've destroyed yours.

0:17.0

A woman of substance on Channel 4 starts tonight at 9.

0:19.9

You might not miss them.

0:22.0

You might miss who you were with them.

0:25.5

Because sometimes it's not the person.

0:27.6

It's the version of you that felt something you don't feel now.

0:40.8

My name is John Kim.

0:46.8

You're listening to the Angry Therapist podcast where we work on ourselves just enough to be tolerable at dinner parties.

0:52.2

On today's episode, five relationship truths that no one told you about.

0:56.9

Okay, going back to the people at dinner parties who constantly talk about their growth and their journey and their new non-negotiables,

1:03.3

you know who I'm talking about. And if you don't know who I'm talking about, it might be you.

1:07.5

Sometimes I feel like people who are working on themselves, sometimes I feel like saying, just keep it to yourself.

1:14.2

Keep it on the inside.

1:15.2

You don't need to broadcast every revelation that you are having.

1:19.4

I mean, that being said, I remember when I was going through my first act break, and it was very exciting to finally, you know, look at yourself and grow and go on that your whole, you know,

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