These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

I like this question. I got a question in the Facebook group. If you're not on the Facebook group, head over there.

The overwhelmed brain empowerment group. It would be great to see you there. on the Facebook group, head over there. The Overwhelmed Brain Empowerment Group, it would be great to see you there.

And when the questions aren't answered in the group by other members,

I like to go on the air and answer them here because sometimes the questions are difficult.

And so I like to address the difficult ones when I see them. And not everyone

knows the direction to take. And I'm just going to give you my feedback on this. And maybe you

have some other feedback that you can share in the group if you're in there. But here's

the question and I'll give you my take. Person wrote, I wanted to go a local performer Saturday night.

My husband didn't want to go so far, so I called my friend.

Now he said, he thought it was a little strange and far for me to see a person I haven't seen

in years talking about the performer.

And I told him I can just buy t-shirts and merch and stuff and just not go.

But he says stuff like this often.

And it's typically after I've already committed to going or want to go bad enough that I go without him.

So maybe I'm just supposed to not go anywhere if he doesn't have an interest in going like I'm strange for even wanting to go.

Some intended sarcasm there.

I told him I can just cancel and he said that I already asked my friend, so maybe I should just go.

I feel like I'm selfish in my marriage for wanting to do stuff.

I asked him first if he wanted to go with me and he didn't want to.

I wanted to go badly, but now I feel stupid and I just want to cancel.

I'm also sad that I feel this way and I feel like if I go,

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