The Female Confidence Cheat Code: Independence, Validation + Boundaries
Morning Rae
Allana Blumberg
4.3 • 525 Ratings
🗓️ 2 March 2026
⏱️ 29 minutes
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#257. In this episode, Lan breaks down her cheat code to becoming the most confident version of you. Everything from learning to love your own company, trusting your judgement, to learning how to communicate boundaries and upholding them. Enjoy!!
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, good morning and welcome back or welcome to Morning Ray. I'm your host, Lan or |
| 0:10.9 | Atlanta. And today's episode is all about finding your confidence, being confident specifically |
| 0:15.9 | from the female's perspective. Duh, I'm female. but I know majority of you guys are female. 95% of my |
| 0:24.3 | listeners are women, which we love. And I think this is something that I find so deeply fascinating. |
| 0:31.7 | And I'm currently reading The Confidence Code. It's a book about why women struggle to be as confident as men. And it's essentially like |
| 0:41.8 | these two women that go on to interview and speak to a bunch of different individuals in a |
| 0:48.0 | variety of different fields, whether they're leaders in their industry or they're doing |
| 0:53.0 | research on confidence, research on confidence in |
| 0:56.0 | females. It's really interesting. So I highly recommend that you go and look at that book. They do |
| 1:01.7 | talk about some of the things that I'm going to be talking about today. But honestly, these are a lot |
| 1:06.3 | of things that I have personally worked on myself over the past few years to work on becoming a more |
| 1:12.0 | confident person, a more self-sure to work on my self-esteem and tandem with my confidence. |
| 1:18.0 | I learned very quickly and early on in therapy that there is a big difference between being |
| 1:23.8 | confident and having high self-esteem. And I think the two get thrown a lot interchangeably. |
| 1:29.7 | And while, yes, the higher the self-esteem, the more confident you can be, but I've also found |
| 1:34.7 | it was really easy for me to appear confident when in turn I didn't feel that confident |
| 1:40.5 | internally, like my self-esteem wasn't there and that often shocked people when confiding |
| 1:45.8 | in friends and people discussing how I felt that way but I digress I want to share with you |
| 1:52.7 | kind of like the cheat code to learning how to be more confident building your self-confidence |
| 1:59.1 | building your self-esteem little things that you can do |
| 2:02.4 | in your day today that will have this compounding impact that is positive on progressing |
| 2:08.1 | towards being a more confident self-sure version of yourself. I decided to do this after last |
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