Hey y'all welcome back to the Don't Mom Alone podcast. I'm your host Heather McFadden,

and this is the place where I'm gonna walk alongside you and connect you with people

and resources to remind you you're not alone. And this episode number 232 I'm chatting

with Anya Graham Master Suzanne Stabil.

Anya Graham is about how you see and you can never change how you see. All you can

do is change what you do with how you see. And I think we expect other women to be more

like us than they are. And I think we struggle to accommodate difference because when

we're tired, insecure, over committed, then we settle for sameness. And where we don't

experience sameness, we tend to disassociate with what isn't us or like us. And I don't

think sameness makes much of anything better. It certainly doesn't create better community,

but it's difficult to create a community of moms like you're doing unless there is recognition

that there's not one right way to do things. There's not one method to follow. There's not one

way of being a mom. There's not one pattern. If you're listening to this episode and you're like,

what is Heather talking about Anya Graham? How do you even spell that? No worries. I don't want to

add to your confusion. Just go to don'tmomalone.com. You can find other to the links. A couple of

resources to give you some basic understanding of the Anya Graham. One is a book written by Suzanne.

It's called The Road Back to You. The other is her MP3 No Your Number. Both, if you're listening

before the end of February 2019, are available at an extreme discount. The coupon codes are listed

there in the show notes. And it'll help you get a further understanding of your type and how you

see the world and learn more about the people around you. Because my goal in this episode is to

bring unity and grace to our relationships with other moms and our families with our kids.

And it is not to bring confusion and division. I know some of you have reached out to me with

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