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U Up?

The Easiest Way To Get From A Dating App Convo To a First Date

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 23 October 2019

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

J and J are back to talk about why it’s so hard for women to initiate a date, and tell us the best way to steer the first-date conversation where you want it to go. At 21:05 they answer a listener question about how many dates she should wait before asks the guy out herself. Is it better to take the initiative early on or wait for your moment? At 28:10 the Awkward Sexual Encounter is all about a sleep talker, a weird sex request, and an expression of love that was probably meant for someone else. At 31:30 they address the universally dreaded topic of family holidays when you’re in a newer relationship. Is it ever a good idea to meet the parents for the first time during a holiday gathering? At 54:20 a listener writes in to ask whether or not she is obligated to forgive her ex for cheating on her. At 1:00:20 they close out the show with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker, including one involving a naked portrait. The U Up? LIVE TOUR, presented by Moxy Hotels, is coming to a city near you! Get your tickets now at Betches.co/uuptour Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

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that actually tastes better than blocking your ex-feels.

0:08.3

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0:21.6

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0:26.0

That's FAUXPAS.

0:30.9

Hello and welcome to the U-Up Podcast. I'm Jordana Ebrahim.

0:35.2

And I am Jared Fried. We are pumped to be back air with you.

0:41.6

I know. Foktober is nearing its end.

0:44.0

Foktober is nearing its end.

0:48.4

It's all, you know, this is peak cuff season.

0:53.1

This is when it all comes together or it doesn't.

0:56.4

Or it doesn't and they're just single for the winter.

0:58.9

Single cold and alone shivering alone next to your scariest thing on Halloween.

1:06.5

It's just you alone. Is it Halloween?

1:08.8

What next week is Halloween?

1:10.2

Next week's Halloween. Any Halloween thoughts?

1:13.3

Great hook up night.

1:14.6

Great hook up night.

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