Hey, friendly friends. What's up? Jason here with another episode of the Relationship School

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we're going to talk about something very important, that new coaches in

particular and helpers tend to do more than seasoned veterans. And I think it's a big mistake.

And I just want to remind you, okay, so that you don't do this because it's not helpful to your clients.

What is it?

It's reassuring your clients that it's going to be okay.

Now, let that sink in for a minute.

Why would we have a problem with telling someone it's going to be okay?

It's going to be okay, client. They're really suffering. Okay, they're in pain. They're just had a bad

divorce. They are going through an affair. They have a new health condition. Whatever you're

coaching them around and all all of a sudden,

you say, just notice, all right? First of all, get in touch with your pain, your relationship

pain right now, and notice what happens when I reassure you, okay? So, tune in. What are you in

pain about? Just think of something. Take a breath. See if you can identify that thing.

Now, here I come.

Coach, innocent coach guy.

And I say, hey, it's going to be okay.

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