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The Angry Therapist Podcast

The Definitive List of Things to Give Less Fcks About

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2019

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

John Kim (The Angry Therapist) is doing things differently. Therapy in a shotglass. Ten minutes, no filler.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

0:07.2

self-betterment into a shot glass because let's face it who's got that much time

0:11.4

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

0:16.0

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

0:31.5

Okay, you ready? Things to give less fucks about. Yesterday's fails. I think so many of us dwell on all our quote unquote failures that happened in the past

0:36.5

and we keep thinking about them and we ruminate and we wish that they didn't happen.

0:43.0

If I look back at my story, some of my quote-unquote failures

0:48.7

were imperative in my story because they repositioned me.

0:52.0

And today I see failure as information.

0:55.0

And listen, I'm not saying that it's not easy.

0:57.0

I also go to this idea that I failed at something

1:01.0

and there's shame behind that and feelings but I intentionally as

1:06.5

a practice see everything that didn't work out the way that I wanted to to be

1:12.0

information and learning or repositioning. So this is maybe

1:16.4

something you haven't thought about but if I look back in my story some of the

1:20.3

failures quote-un, like my divorce or not making it as a screenwriter.

1:27.6

These are things that if it did not happen, I wouldn't be doing what I'm doing today, meaning I wouldn't have found

1:36.5

purpose and meaning, I wouldn't have become a therapist.

1:40.8

My divorce, although although painful was what threw me into my man journey my

1:48.4

hero's journey and it was because of that's right that was the first domino that set me off on a path of me swimming

1:56.7

toward me. So that's one thing to give less fucks about. All your fails. Another one, what and who your exes are doing. I think we, especially

2:08.8

because of social media, stock our exes and then you know we jump into time machine and replay

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