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Hot and Bothered

The Best Man

Hot and Bothered

Not Sorry Productions

Books, Feminism, Intersectionality, Arts, Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 2 December 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Vanessa Zoltan and Dr. Simone Drake meet at an NYC bachelor party to record this week’s episode of Hot and Bothered, all about The Best Man.


This week we discuss Black movies of the 90s, the Moynihan Report, and movie soundtracks. We finish the episode by calling Tyler D. Parry to talk to us about jumping the broom.



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0:00.0

In 1999, the movie The Best Man came out.

0:07.0

Notable for its star-studded, all-black cast, it was produced on a relatively small budget of $9 million, and then went on to be a success, making over $34 million by the end of its theatrical run.

0:25.3

The movie starred, Wait for it, Tay Diggs, Nealong, Regina Hall, Terence Howard, and Sinaw Lathan, plus many more.

0:38.4

It's a who's who of gorgeous, famous, black actors

0:43.2

toward the beginning of their careers,

0:46.7

and in this movie, they're playing a group of friends from college

0:50.6

reunited for their friend Lance's wedding,

0:56.1

to the perfect Mia.

1:05.0

Harper, our main character and The Best Man, played by Diggs, is on the brink of becoming a successful novelist. His debut has been selected by Oprah.

1:11.7

He lives with his lovely girlfriend Robin, played by Lathen, in Chicago.

1:17.7

They're happy and in love, but it's clear early on that Robin wants more.

1:25.1

I mean, you said yourself that I was the best girlfriend you ever had.

1:28.2

You've never been with somebody this long.

1:30.1

I had this much fun.

1:32.0

Face it, we fit together.

1:35.9

Yeah, but...

1:37.2

You love me, don't you?

1:38.7

Of course I do.

1:40.1

But it's not that simple.

1:41.9

They're both going to the wedding, but Harper heads to New York early to engage in best man activities.

1:50.4

It turns out that Harper's novel is very closely inspired by his group of friends.

1:58.1

And there is a real secret at the heart of it.

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