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Hello Monday with Jessi Hempel

The Ambition Trap: How to Stop Living for Approval and Start Living for You

Hello Monday with Jessi Hempel

LinkedIn

Careers, Business

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 19 January 2026

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Ambition. Is it a dirty word? Do you love the term, or hate it? In this Hello Monday episode from the archives, Jessi Hempel sits down with two incredible colleagues at LinkedIn, Hayley Saltzman and Ahyiana Angel, to explore how our understanding of ambition evolves, and what it means to chase personal growth rather than external validation. Hayley Saltzman is an Editor at Large at LinkedIn, focusing on vertical video strategy. Ahyiana Angel was the Podcast Ad Ops Producer at LinkedIn and the host of her own podcast called Switch, Pivot, or Quit. Together, they reflect on how ambition is often shaped by external expectations and how true fulfillment comes when we start living for ourselves. In this episode, Jessi, Ahyiana, and Hayley discuss: The tension between extrinsic and intrinsic ambition Our gendered notions of ambition, and how society’s definition of ambition is often limiting for women What happens when you quit a dream job to pursue something more aligned with personal growth The relationship between fear and ambition Practical tips for reconnecting with your own ambitions and self-worth If you've ever questioned what success and ambition truly mean for you, this episode is for you. Whether you're navigating career transitions or redefining what ambition looks like in your life, we hope this conversation will inspire you to live and work authentically.

Transcript

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0:00.0

LinkedIn News.

0:08.1

Hey friends, it's Jesse, and as 2026 gets underway, we are three weeks into a new year,

0:16.1

one in which I have so far upheld the one resolution I have.

0:20.7

You're perfectly. Again, I say so far.

0:23.7

My one resolution, by the way, it's to turn off my cell phone every night at 9 o'clock and leave

0:28.5

it outside my bedroom and not to turn it on again until 7 a.m. So, 21 days into the year,

0:35.8

I am here, and it is leaving me fueled up, excited for a year

0:39.7

in which I have, I'm just going to say it, a ton of ambition.

0:44.1

I'm proud to say that.

0:45.8

And at least me really wanting to dive deep again into our conversation about ambition.

0:51.5

If you've been with us for a while, you probably really have your own thoughts and

0:56.4

opinions on this term and on this conversation. Enjoy it. It's fresh from our archives, and we'll be

1:03.5

back next week. I don't think that there's anything wrong with the word ambition.

1:13.6

But when I think about applying it to myself, that is where I am physically getting uncomfortable.

1:19.4

If I were to think about how I would want others to describe me, describing me as ambitious, that wouldn't be my number one goal.

1:26.7

When you initially asked me about ambition, Jesse, I said, I feel like it's a young person's sport.

1:31.5

It's somebody's thing that you strive for when you're fresh out of college.

1:35.9

If someone were to say to me now, you're so ambitious, I'd be like, hello, of course, I know that.

1:42.7

I know. I've achieved some things. Ambition has a sort of

1:46.0

gendered and stereotypical quality. I think about ambitious like women in movies and they're like

1:52.4

doggy dog, elbow other people out, succeed at the expense of others. Sort of um, ballbusters. I hate that word.

2:01.5

But that's sort of what we're talking about, right?

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