So I get it. You want to know if it was a mom's fault, right? Or is dad's fault? Or if they're just wired incorrectly. It just made bad, right? Just bad wiring. It made them who they are. You're looking for a reason to stay or reason to forgive this narcissistic person in your life. And as someone is diagnosed with narcissistic

person out of disorder, I can just be, I'm going to just keep it hiding ready with you. Howdy

with you like a little seasoned pizza. Finding out why they are the way that they are won't change

what they are doing. It won't change who they are. Right. And because like as a narcissist, I was made in a specific way and today i'm going

to talk about narcissism in males how narcissistic males are created could some of this stuff

apply to narcissistic women yes absolutely it can my fellas you can watch this video my women

who love women you watch this video as well because a lot of

this stuff could apply as well i don't know the video of all narcissistic women here soon but we're

going to talk about males today y'all let's hop right into it no buffer no buffer nature the nature

factor nature does play a role in narcissism like the genetic seat like genetics like genetics can play a role, right? Not every narcissist is absolutely going to be coming from an abusive household, right? Because you get some, some people who are good parents, right? Good parents. And they just be like, how the hell did my son become a narcissist? They've done everything right. They've done everything like no parent is perfect, but they've done everything that they could do. Got him in the therapy. Something just, the wiring is just off, right? Something just disconnected, right? Like the brain can just, I can say malfunction. The brain is just different. You know what I mean? Like some people are naturally born more sensitive. You know what I mean? But narcissistic people tend to be born more sensitive, more aggressive, or more driven. If you take that high octane brain and put it in a toxic environment you get a narcissist right more sensitive more

aggressive more driven I know people are here the word sensitive and you automatically

think about empath no sensitivity does not automatically equate to empathy

sensitivity can equate to I I have a thin I'm thin skinned and react very

violently or very quickly or very irrationally to criticism or perceived criticism

or slight.

So sensitivity does not necessarily mean empathy.

I know people hear it's sensitive.

Like, Lee, I'm sensitive.

I'm not a narcissist?

No.

No.

So if you put all of that and put it in a toxic environment, you might get a narcissistic person, right? And so also there's an empathy gap. Like a lot of times like research does show that for some of us, the parts of the brain that process empathy just don't light up the same way as other people as i don't know i'm just

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