So you think you're fighting for your marriage.

You do, don't you?

You think you're showing them that your love is unconditional.

Like you think that narcissists, the toxic people just want unconditional love,

and you think that's enough for them.

But as someone that is diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder,

I can tell you straight up right now.

When you chase after me, when you chase me after I've disrespected you, after I've done something to you,

after I've cheated on you, lied to you, manipulated you, whatever, I don't see love from you.

I see that as a permission slip to keep doing whatever I've been doing.

The more you chase, the more permission you give me to continue my toxic narcissistic behavior.

The more you chase after a narcissist, the more they feel like, well, it's okay because the black and white thinking, right?

It's truly black and white thinking. If you, like, think about like like this. If you chase a, like, if, in the mind of a narcissist, if everything is

either all good or all bad, then if you're chasing after me, right? If you, if you're chasing

after me, then it must be all good right think about it like that

if you're chasing me it must be all good because it can't be bad right because i wouldn't chase

after somebody that's bad i wouldn't do that that's not how my mind works right that's not how my mind that's not how

i operate in this space and whatnot so if you're thinking about like this that's the mentality

that's where it goes to right there that's how narcissistic people's minds work right there y'all

truly that's truly how it works you know the delusions are out of this world yeah the delusions

are completely out of this world so like, the delusions are completely out of this

world. So today, that's what we're talking about. You know, today we're talking about why

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