How do narcissist act when they drunk?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 11 March 2026
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
Does the narcissist in your life become a completely different person when they drink, or are you finally seeing who they really are? Many people believe that alcohol "changes" the narcissist, but from the perspective of a self-aware narcissist, I can tell you that it usually just lowers the inhibitions that were keeping the rage in check.
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| 0:00.0 | You've seen this shift happen to you. They take a few shots, a few shots here and there, |
| 0:06.9 | and suddenly out of nowhere, the person you knew is gone. That narcissist, that toxic person, |
| 0:13.3 | has disappeared right before your eyes. Either they become the most charming person in the world |
| 0:18.0 | to everyone except you most times, right right they can be charming to you as well |
| 0:21.7 | or they turn into a nightmare they turn into a monster that looks like everything that you just being |
| 0:28.4 | afraid of they look like they want to destroy everything you love everything you care for including |
| 0:33.4 | you your kids everybody around right as they narcissists, I'm going to talk to |
| 0:38.6 | talk to you about the drunk narcissist, right? About how alcohol doesn't change who we are. It really |
| 0:44.6 | doesn't. It just takes the leash off of the person that we've been hiding. Alcohol just removes the |
| 0:50.3 | filter. Let's talk about the two faces, the two faces of a drunken narcissist. And I already |
| 0:55.3 | know what you're going to say. I don't know what you're going to say. Well, leave all narcissists are two faces without alcohol or not. And you'd be right, right. You'll be right. Look, I ain't going to hate on you. You got a point there. You have a valid point right there. I ain't going to hate on you. Well, yeah, welcome to the Narcissus Code, man. |
| 1:13.4 | Look, before we even get started. You have a valid point right there. I ain't going to hate all you. |
| 1:26.7 | Well, yeah, welcome to the Narcissus Code, man. Look, before we can even get started, I got to let you all know. I appreciate y'all so much. I took a couple of shots, and I'm charming right now. So I'm a loving mood. I appreciate you so much. Love y'all. I'm grateful for you and I'm thankful for you. No, that's serious. That's me being serious. |
| 1:28.2 | I'm grateful for all those, every single one of y'all. |
| 1:28.7 | Seriously. |
| 1:28.7 | So let's hop into it it there, y'all. The first one, the first face of a narcissist. We're going to talk about the friendly face, the friendly drunk narcissist. The friendly drunk narcissist toxic person that is hunting for supply, right? It gets to the point right where some of y'all might want your narcissus to take a couple of shots |
| 1:46.3 | because they get nice when they get drunk, don't you? |
| 1:47.9 | Some of them, right? |
| 1:49.2 | So this sometimes can be a tactic. |
| 1:52.3 | It's like some of us literally do get happy and generous and loving and compassionate and kind |
| 1:57.8 | and get turned on very easily when we get drunk right we buy rounds for the |
| 2:04.2 | whole bar for everybody at the party everybody else shots owe me drinks on me we might regret that |
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