The 4 Elements of True Love (They're Not What You Think): Episode 119
EmPowered Couples with The Freemans
Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman
5.0 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 5 January 2021
⏱️ 33 minutes
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Summary
Love is kind of the point of a relationship right? We know that you felt a lot of love for your partner early in your relationship and now that love probably feels different or maybe less. As you progress through your relationship your feeling of love will be different as you have more trust and comfort with each other. Maybe some of the challenges in your relationship have led you to a place of currently not feeling as much love. So how do you keep love not only alive but growing?
You should notice that in either case above, love is often based on outside conditions and how happy you currently feel. Whether it's about financial security, how your partner has been talking to you, or feeling too routine in your day to day life all of these are conditional feelings of love. In this podcast you will learn the 4 elements of love that allow for a truly unconditional love to be alive in your relationship. Then knowing these 4 elements, when you do feel less love between you and your partner, you will know the exact way to generate it.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome to the Empower Couples podcast. We're here you get modern, non-boring relationship |
| 0:05.5 | advice for you to communicate like pros, fight smarter, and stand the same team no matter the |
| 0:10.5 | challenges that you face. I am one of your host, Aaron Freeman. And I'm Jocelyn Freeman, but you all |
| 0:15.1 | just know us as the Freeman's. And this episode is all about the four elements of true love. |
| 0:22.4 | Oh yeah, and they aren't what you think. Okay, so before we go into the whole, what are we going to cover and the very tangible |
| 0:26.6 | advice we like to always give you, I want you to go back in time to that moment where you |
| 0:32.5 | two told each other that you loved each other. |
| 0:34.9 | Who was it? |
| 0:35.9 | Was it you first? |
| 0:36.9 | Was it your partner first? Did you both |
| 0:38.5 | say it? Well, you might be reminiscing. Maybe you're smiling. Maybe it was recently. Maybe it was |
| 0:43.5 | years ago. I want to briefly share our story because it's pretty funny and some of you haven't heard |
| 0:48.9 | it before. And so imagine you go to tell your partner that you love them, okay, because this is what happened |
| 0:56.4 | to me. |
| 0:57.4 | I knew I wanted to say it, okay? |
| 0:59.4 | I had prepared myself and I'll kind of share more of the inner dialogue I had before |
| 1:04.5 | I went and did it. |
| 1:05.6 | But here's what I want you to imagine. |
| 1:07.1 | You go to share it and then your partner starts to do their laundry after saying thank you. |
| 1:15.1 | Okay? |
| 1:16.1 | So you say I love you and they say thank you and start doing their laundry. |
| 1:21.6 | I feel like for some they might have had the same experience of their partner saying thank you. |
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